Being Slow to Obey is Still Disobeying


I work at a local private school and my experiences there have given me more than enough illustrations for hundreds of blog posts, but today something I heard struck me in an unforgettable way. As one of the kids was cleaning up and getting ready to leave (in the slowest possible “mom I’m not ready to go: manner), his mom said to him “Remember son, being slow to obey is still disobeying.”

I have thought about those words all evening. I may no longer be the kid who just wants a few more minutes with her friends and therefore takes considerably longer to clean up her toys, but how often do I respond to God essentially the same way? I’m not that kid, but I am that Christian, I think we all are in ways. God asks me to do something and rather than out-rightly saying no, I say “later.” I tell God that I will obey when I’m ready as if I have any right to reason with Him. I do things on my timetable, when I’m comfortable, but that’s never what God asked of me.

I’m not sure when it became okay for me to tell God to wait, but it’s wrong and it’s sin. Just like a parent who expects immediate obedience, God is my authority and He not only expects, but deserves my obedience. Waiting on my timetable isn’t an option and quite frankly it’s silly to believe that following my plans could ever work out better than my simple and prompt obedience to His commands. 

So now, as I strive to remember that “being slow to obey is still disobeying,” I’m going to seek to “put away my toys” more quickly and less begrudgingly. I’m going to stop and ask God to give me a heart that eagerly obeys His callings immediately and I pray that you’ll do the same. And tomorrow… I am going to hug that sweet little 6 year old who taught me a great big lesson today!

You know all those things you’ve always wanted to do, but never made time for? Well this is mine. I’ve always joked about starting a blog and here it is, I’m typing my first post.

 I guess we should get to know each other. Here it goes… I am a 19 year old student at Liberty University. I talk too much. I love Jesus more than anything else in life. I’m passionate, I thrive on busyness and I am incredibly stubborn. Right up there next to Jesus on my love list is kids. I want to be a mom and God has given me a huge heart for children. I guess that’s why I’m an Elementary Education major! I love the innocence and faith of children. I’m addicted to Pinterest and I love to cook, shop and do cheesy girly things. I love sappy chick flicks (secretly, I think every girl does and is just afraid to admit it). I mean what girls heart doesn’t skip a beat when the sensitive, extremely attractive guy says the perfect thing to the girl in a movie and promptly kisses her?! It’s the heart of a woman, we all want that kind of love. Speaking of love, I am currently single and by that I mean I’ve never actually dated anyone. Don’t panic, I know it’s weird! I really feel that dating is for marriage and if I wouldn’t marry someone I won’t date them. No worries, I know God is preparing someone out there!

You should know about my family I suppose, since they are a pretty big part of my life. My dad is a pastor. He planted a church when I was about 4 and has faithfully pastored it for almost 15 years now. This summer we will be building and we could not be more excited. My dad is amazing and has shown me true Biblical manhood and what it means to be treasured by that kind of man. My mom works as a special needs aide and reading specialist at a local elementary school. She also has an incredible heart for the Lord and loves children and missions. She lived in Ecuador for two years and is fluent in Spanish. Now that I’m an adult, I can happily call her one of my closest friends. Lastly, I have a 22 year old brother. He just graduated Liberty last spring and is a worship major at our church. He is charming, funny and on fire for Christ (he’s also single ). Being a pastor’s family is certainly an adventure; sometimes amazing, sometimes trying, but most definitely what God has called us to. Everyone always says we should write a book so this may be as close as it gets, but we’ll let you in on this crazy life of ours!

So there it is, in a compressed form, that’s me and this is my sweetly broken life.


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